1. Introductory
This is the most important part of
this process, it will determine if
you will be able to gain any grounds
on this matter. A Kenyan lady will
remember any man who made an
impact on the first meeting. You
have to mix a blend of
professionalism and casual at the
same time. You’d probably
introduce yourself first and then
give her the lead. Don’t insist on
getting information she doesn’t
want to reveal to you. As you get
the importance of this part, ensure
to make it count.
2. Read their moods before
you suggest any ideas.
This is equally important too, it
actually determines how things will
develop. Reading the mood entails
intuitively connecting to her mind
and taking charge. Take note of the
time of the day; ask her if she is
hungry. If she says yes she is
probably playing along and you
have to use this situation to your
advantage. If you do trust your
instinct this is the time to use it.
3. Always remember ‘Fun
not Funny’
Many people tend to think that
women love jokes more. Don’t get
me wrong, being funny is a good
thing they will always fancy the
idea of throwing in a few jokes. You
know what they say laughter is the
best medicine, but in this situation
you would want to be fun. Focus on
showing her excitement and
enjoyment.
4. Complement her
Kenyan women like to be
complemented every once in a
while. Women do a lot to make
themselves look great, from hair,
face, manicure and pedicure to
clothing. So as a gentle man you
have to notice this stuff. Just say
something nice as this will add to
your luck.
5. Try bringing up
emotional themes
Romantic moods are created with
emotional themes. Try talking about
future ambitions, childhood
memories or even her passions.
This kind of theme opens up the
emotional floodgate. She’ll feel
warm and will open up her heart to
you. Take advantage of this and
make her confide in you. The
moment she puts trust in you then
it means you are another level up
in seducing her.
6. Be a man – take the
lead.
Kenyan women love men who are
courageous enough to take the
lead. Try and control the
conversation you have with her, let
her know that you are in control of
things and situation. Ensure that
you don’t let her dictate what
you’re going to talk about.
7. Always tease her
This is a trick that has been used
for a long time now. Women in
Kenya love to be teased; this will
always bring about fun and flirty
conversation. Not necessarily the
dirty talk so take note not to push
her away.
8. Dont over complement
her
I understand there is a tip that
suggests you should complement
her. To understand too much of
something is poisonous. The same
applies to complementation, though
it is a good thing you have to be
careful because if you over do it
the woman gets bored and starts to
think otherwise of you. It is a
powerful tool but if misused can
also bring misfortunes.
9. Avoid being inquisitive
If you want to know how to
successfully seduce a Kenyan
woman you should always avoid
being inquisitive, too many
question only scares her away. Try
making it a one on one
conversation, making her feel like
she has an option.
10. Pay attention to non-
verbal signs that she gives
you
When you are close to her and if
there is stuff that you are doing
that she doesn’t like, she will
always give you a clue. Suddenly
she behaves as if she is bored, look
out for negative signs and correct
your mistakes.
